女生對你不敢興趣指標
BY KEYAGENT
之前就教大家判斷興趣指標(Indicator of interest),簡稱IOI
但其實女生對一個男生沒有好感
亦會有一些表現及舉動
我們稱為不感興趣的指標(Indicator of Disinterest),簡稱IOD
當然這些都是PU大師謎男所發明
你可以觀察目標有沒有對你做這些行為
去判斷你對她的吸引力程度
今天給大家列了幾個女生常見的IOD
- 不想讓你知道她的資訊
你一定想知道你的目標更多的事情及資訊
但當你想索取她們的資訊時
她們總是不給答案、問非所答、突然轉換話題等
這些都是IOD的特徵
如果她對你稍有興趣
她都願意透露她一些資訊
例如她喜歡甚麼、周末去了那裡玩、今天遇到甚麼特別的事等
透露一點線索給你,增加互相了解的機會
2.訊息回覆冷淡
這個應該是最普遍的
你發了她30字,她才發給你4-5個字
而且發生的頻率很高
這也是個很明顯的無興趣指標
但有學員曾問到
發了訊息,她很久才會回覆
這個是否IOD呢
這個反而不一定,主要是看字數,字數亦投資量
如果她慢回,但字數很多,代表她對你有興趣
亦有些女生,習慣不喜歡立即回,這也是因人而異
3對你的生活不感興趣
通常男生會對目標發一些他自己的生活、喜好
作為聊天的話題,亦可以隱性為自己加分
但她看到後並沒有太熱衷
亦無興趣再了解
這也是個很明顯的無興趣指標
而且在聊天的內容里也不會帶入感情的方向
回避你的話題升級
上集就教大家判斷
三個不感興趣的指標(Indicator of Disinterest),簡稱IOD
這些指標是女生對一個男生沒有好感
的一些表現及舉動
今天給大家列了兩個女生常見的IOD
4 一直約不出來
雖然你跟她聊得不錯
但每次約她時
她總是以各種理由和借口推辭
比如總是說沒時間
最近要考試、加班 做功課
已經約了閨蜜、陪阿爸阿媽之類的
推三推四
其實這個亦都是明顯的IOD
5.拒絕你的升溫
平時你能跟她聊得不錯,
亦可以約出來去玩
但每當你想升溫時
包括言語上、肢體上,她都有抗拒感
關鍵是,你多次嘗試,都是沒有進展
有可能她已經將你打入朋友圈
因此拒絕你的曖昧升級
但是否遇到IOD就應放棄呢
當然不是,很大機會你對她的吸引仍未到位
你需要增加你的吸引度
而如何增加吸引度,之前的影片亦講過
大家有興趣可以看回講吸引力的短片
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